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Link for consent vote
The link for the vote on the consent class is


Posted by APurpleButterfly on Monday 13 November 2017 - 08:50:15 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
Door Greeters
One of the first faces members and guests see when they walk through the front door of the Society are the smiling, cheerful greeters. It is this hard working group that helps keep our doors open.

Have you been a member for over three months, do you have a great personality, and if so would you like to join our small group of "Society Greeters'? If so, please contact me, LordSlaveElijah, via a PM here on FetLife, or at chiefgatekeeper@thesocietyct.org. Or better still, just walk up and speak to me at the space, I don't bite. Unless you ask nicely that is.

Or if you know someone who might be good on the door, feel free to give me their name.

Come be a part of the "Society Greeters"!

LordSlaveElijah aka Elijah

Posted by APurpleButterfly on Monday 27 June 2016 - 15:33:07 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
a night of amazing fun, energy and people!
Members: $15, Guests: $20, w/GKE TICKET: $10

The Society is opening its doors on Thursday night Before GKE in Hartford. We are inviting all patrons of the GKE to come on down and visit the Society for some fun and play.

Not normally open on Thursday evenings we are for this event to welcome you to Hartford.

Come visit our full dungeon and relax in our lounges.


Posted by APurpleButterfly on Wednesday 09 August 2017 - 10:15:11 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
Summer Flea, August 19th!
Once again, I am happy to say that the society will be having a table at the summer flea.

Best Western Royal Plaza Hotel
181 Boston Post Road West
Marlborough, MA 01752

Saturday, August 19, 2017
11:00 AM - 5:00 PM

We are looking for volunteers to help man our table. The schedule will be.

11am to 1pm

1pm to 3pm

3pm to 5 (close)

If you would like to step up and spread the word about all the yummy things that are happening at the Society, Just sign up below!!!


Posted by APurpleButterfly on Wednesday 05 July 2017 - 19:00:07 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
F0rbidden will be missed. Our support and love goes to Wardancer and their family.

S-A-M and Ali are having a memorial at their place on Saturday for Bidden.

This of course is in conflict scheduling wise with our Town Meeting. We have been asked whether the Meeting will be rescheduled and we have looked into the scheduling.

With Little's Invasion happening on the 17th and the 24th being only one week before the new board sits and needing to give time for online voting there is not enough time.

Therefore; We are keeping the town meeting on the 10th as planned.

Elections will proceed as planned, with voting taking place online.
We will have computers at the Society on Saturday for those wanting to place their vote. We will leave the election open online until Saturday the 17th at 6PM. At that time we will close the voting and announce the winners. This way people who were not at the town meeting will still get a chance to vote.

In Recognition of Bidden and the drive to raise funds to help her family, we will have a Donation jar at the Front Desk of the Society, this Friday and Saturday.

Posted by subkerin on Tuesday 06 June 2017 - 09:53:51 | Comments: 1  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
We have all been complaining about the difficulty in navigating this website. We are going to move forward with a rebuild. We are looking for people who have the talent and ability to design websites. Please contact me syssikerin@yahoo.com to work on this project.
Thank you.

Posted by subkerin on Thursday 01 June 2017 - 07:54:53 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
The Society is closed this weekend April 21st and 22nd
Clean up work is progressing. The landlord has professional crews in doing the clean up.
According to Steve, our Facilities chair, the bottom sections of walls that were wet have been cut away, and fans are blowing throughout to prevent mold from being. The next step is to re sheetrock the walls, tape and mud them and then repaint. The carpets in the quiet room and Master Charles Room are being replaced. All this is being done by the Landlord.

He has also walked through the building g with the fire marshall. He has stuff to fix throughout the building including exit signs and emergency lighting. Not just within our space either. However, until this is all complete, we can not come back in.

We should be all set for next weekends Kinky Geek Event and Photo day.

See you all then.

The Society

Posted by subkerin on Wednesday 19 April 2017 - 15:12:28 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
October 28, 29 & 30 at The Society
Its Thursday Thursday Thursday....Lets get to PLANNING the weekend!!!!

Friday is going to be a great night too stop by hang out with friends, meet new friends & enjoy the energy still hanging around after last weekends outstanding QI. New to the scene this would be a perfect night to stop by for your first visit.

Saturday the ghoulish fun & trickery starts

With the infamous 5th Saturday Photo Day, just like the mysterious 3rd verse in Garth Brooks Friends in Low Places, this only comes around when there is a 5th Saturday to the month. There will be plenty of photographers & people as we're also going a special shoot for The Society.

Once everything is put away from photoday be careful where you go as the monsters will be arriving from their sleep for The Society annual Halloween Party.


Then Sunday , as with all things in life with pleasure comes a little work, so after all the excitement from QI & the ghoulish times of this weekend, comes The Society Cleaning Day.


Now I promise there is something for everyone don't let a moment of this slip by.

Posted by -anoel- on Thursday 27 October 2016 - 08:50:16 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
The Society presents Coming Out Differently III
Day 1 October 14, 2016
The Society
806 Windsor Street, Hartford, CT

Cost: $10 for members and $15 for sponsored guests

Begins Friday October 14, 2016.

Doors will open promptly at 8:00pm.

The night will commence with a fun filled meet & greet, a vast array of succulent hot & cold o'dourves to munch on during all of the fun. Then of course the option to play using all of our wonderful stations.

And so many surprises you don't want to miss out on.

Posted by -anoel- on Monday 10 October 2016 - 08:58:44 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
The Society presents Coming Out Differently III
Day 2 October 15, 2016
The Society
806 Windsor Street, Hartford, CT

Day 2
Saturday October 15, 2016.

**As much as we try life unfortunately happens so PLEASE keep in mind that the schedule below IS subject to change, Thank You in advance for understanding & your cooperation.**

10:00 am - Doors Open

10:45 – 11:30 am
Classroom A DreamsDontDie - Coming Out Disabled
Classroom B LisaLisa1029 - Yoga

11:45 am – 12:30 pm
Classroom A Dasade - Coming Out Poly
Classroom B Makeup by StarQueen

12:30 – 1:15 pm Lunch

1:30 – 2:15 pm
Classroom A TBA - Spirituality
Classroom B DaSade being an Ally

2:30-3:15 pm
Classroom A Sara Scalper - You're a Sadist
Classroom B SDParent & Bendy4u - Recovery in the Lifestyle

3:30-4:15 pm
Classroom A One of Our Own: A Journey Through Genders - class information can be found below, as well as a bio on the presenter.
Classroom B DreamsDontDie - Coming Out Kinky

4:30-5:15 pm
Classroom What Coming Out Means to Me ?
Roundtable discussion

5:15 -6:00 pm
Dinner break

Doors open for the evening at 6:00 pm

Evening Schedule

7:00-7:30 pm
Quiet room The Society 101 class

8:00-9:00 pm
Master Charles Room; The Society presents its Consent Class, this evenings class will be lead by -evie-. Remember group participation in strongly encouraged for this class.

9:00 pm Keynote Presentation with Sara Scalper (Master Charles Room)

Everyone knows that "coming out" regarding anything (being GLBTQ, kinky, non-monogamous, etc.) is difficult and potentially life-changing, but not everyone is aware of the potential consequences of not "Coming Out Different." Lifestyle sadist/dominant, kink educator, and professional therapist Sara Scalper will use this class to talk about the repercussions of not coming out as well as the stresses related to coming out, and will offer tips and techniques for self-care during the coming out process. They will also talk about coming out regarding consent violations, as these occur frequently in our community, and folks often face similar stresses when choosing whether or not to reveal what has happened to them as well as similar repercussions when they do not reveal them. The last portion of the class will function as a discussion, allowing people to share their coming out stories and their own tips and tricks, as well as to ask questions/brainstorm about potential "Coming Out" approaches. Whether you're so out of the closet that the door's locked behind you or you're in the back behind all the coats, come join us as we discuss something that affects the lives of everyone in the kink community.

Sara Scalper is a delightfully genderfluid, queer, nonmonogamous lifestyle sadist who has been topping for over 14 years. They have been involved in the public BDSM scene for 12 years, and have been a part of the Boston scene since 2010. They self-identify as 75% intersexed being, 20% Amazonian woman, and 5% primal male (these identities are constantly in flux), but are always 100% ethical sadist. They trained in muay thai kickboxing for 5 years and dabbled in other martial arts, and tend to utilize these accumulated skills, along with a variety of implements, in their scenes on the regular. Animalistic and primal, with a topping style all their own, they have been dubbed the "Fists of Fury" by some of their Boston-area friends. They also get great pleasure from being a "scene aunt" to newer folks in the scene, teaching them how to top safely (via classes or one-on-one instruction) and/or how to negotiate so they have safe, satisfying scenes. They have taught for NELA's Fetish Fair Flea, Bound In Boston, Wicked Women, Boston Invasions at the Society, Trans Spectrum Kinksters, Paingasms at the Society, MOB, and Boston TNG, and are excited to present at Coming Out Different for the first time this year! They can often be found with their lovely wife, co-presenter, and collared submissive, AJ, and their extended "poly family," and love to talk ethical nonmonogamy as much as they do.

A journey through gender class description & presenter bio

Transgendered, FTM, MTF, gender queer, gender outlaw, Two-Spirit, gender fluid, third gender, etc.
There are so many different variations, so many questions, so many ways for you (as family, friends, strangers) to be supportive, engaging, endearing and downright rude to transgendered people-
Working to change your outside to get it to match your true inner self can be complicated by what it does to your life, costly depending on your path and affirming when you suddenly feel as if you have finally come home in your own body.
Here is your chance to learn about one of your own. Chuck will talk about his path and how he journeyed from female to male. He will tell you how family, bosses, co-workers and friends have made this path a sometimes easy, well loved trail and sometimes a painful choice about who to leave behind. Chuck will explain how his gender and his kink frequently go hand in hand as well as how empowering it is to be comfortable in your own body.
All questions will be answered and no question will be considered rude. If you would like to ask a question without being in the spotlight during the presentation write qchase on Fetlife or qchase at gmail dot com and your question will be answered that night.
We are everywhere- some of us you know, some of us you will never guess, but we are each, in our own way, one of your own.
Chuck is FtM and has been in the Leather scene for a long time. He started out in the early 80’s as a bottom and now is a well loved Master . He is also: Sir, Dom, Daddy, Sadist, Sensualist, Boss and all around instigator.

9:00 pm -2:00 am - Open play

Posted by -anoel- on Monday 10 October 2016 - 08:56:45 | Comments: 0  |  printer friendly create pdf of this news item
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